What happens on earth when celestial orbs get in each other’s light 

By Yvonne. On February 26, 2017 at 6:25 a.m we will experience a solar eclipse in 8 degrees Pisces. Here are some ideas on how to flow into it:

What are eclipses?

Eclipses are events when one celestial orb, such as the earth, blocks another and creates darkness upon the earth. The one coming up involves the moon coming in between the sun and earth; being annular, it will totally block the sun from view and is considered one of the most powerful events in the year. 

What does this mean spiritually?

In many ancient cultures, including Christianity, eclipses are often feared for what might happen. It is a time when the veil between worlds is the thinnest and when ghosts can penetrate our world 1,000 more times, creating all kinds of mischief and mayhem. Even Jesus’ crucifixion occurred in a lunar eclipse where temporarily it seemed as if God had abandoned the world.

Whenever we have solar or lunar eclipses, it amplifies the type of celestial event involved. For instance, a full moon eclipse makes a Full Moon even more emotional; a new moon eclipse makes the New Moon even more eventful when the planets align. In general we experience 4-6 eclipses per year. These times mark significant changes that create opportunities for our soul to grow, especially if these eclipses touch on our personal planets by transit.

Hidden truths surface 

During these times we experience strong emotions and insights. Messages from beyond come through loud and clear. Whether it is pointing out the true colors of our friends or the lost cause nature of a false hope or endeavors of ours or something else, an eclipse brings light to that which we have ignored or been in denial about. Not all eclipses are negative: some individuals experience great joy during the solar eclipse, especially if they have done their inner work. But most eclipses usually begin with heavy emotions that we cannot ignore. 

The more intensely we feel — especially when the feelings aren’t ours and are unpleasant, the more we have to pay attention to energy exchanges between ourselves and others. Is it in balance? Have we neglected a relationship? Was what we contracted with others still in alignment with our sense of fairness and truth? Are we too busy taking care of other people’s needs, we have neglected our own self care? These are all issues that come to the fore of our consciousness to be acted upon. 


With a Pisces solar eclipse, all the negative aspects of Neptune must be faced and transmuted. This includes our tendency to live vicariously through others and not tend to our well-being; to live in a fantasy world to avoid dealing with mundane realities; to use addictions, including gambling, sex, drugs, and overspending, to soothe ourselves and avoid reality; to feel the negative feelings and despondency of others; and to not deal with our problems in a practical manner.

It is a time when we get fed up with how we are misunderstood, unappreciated or undervalued (especially for our views and opinions on Facebook and other places). Do we want to continue to be a doormat? Or do we want to take the bull by the horns and walk away from people and situations that no longer serve our visions. We have a choice, and the sooner we embrace the feelings that come up and take action, the clearer we are about our workable choices and what steps to take to move forward.

Don’t go out; eat or drink; meditate and read holy words

Since Earthly practitioners use these cycles to do rituals, the atmosphere is charged with egoic intentions and chaotic energy. Some of the dark magic is harmful. For this reason, ancient peoples always advised staying close to home and increasing your level of spiritual protection during eclipses.

It is a time commonly used for inner work and dealing with our issues. If a situation is sufficiently toxic enough to us, we have to face that certain people or circumstances may have served their purpose and it is time to let them go. It is a time for endings, especially during lunar eclipses. We do a final accounting, pay for the time used, find the impetus to cut the ties and move on. 

Since our intuition is heightened we also can see through deception and fantasy states that might normally keep us in negative habits. Random events happen during eclipses to shake us from our cherished illusions and make us accept the reality of the challenge and our limitations in fulfilling it. Sorrows deepen to the point where we are forced to act. Unlike the Mercury retrograde, which happens automatically, the raw truths unearthed during eclipses usually result in new behaviors and adjustments in the next 18-24 months to come. 

Once we remove things that no longer serve our Higher Self, we need to surround ourselves with positive energy and relationships that help us stay strong, rather than refill the void with a different substance or distraction. In order to renew our souls, it is beneficial to align ourselves with healthier rituals that make us feel wholesome and uplifted. Staying a frequency above the lower astral realms where wandering ghosts and negative thought forms chatter is critical to avoiding unneeded entanglement during these times. It is therefore a good time for singing, praying, saying a mantra, doing a spiritual practice, journal writing, laughing, clapping, clearing spaces, and connecting with other likeminded souls to protect yourself during eclipses. Once we have shed aspects of ourselves that we have outgrown, we can see it from a higher perspective and, as Susan Miller says, get to a “new level of maturity”; thus using these events to evolve to a higher, more fulfilling state.


Eclipses force us to move forward

Events happen whether we like them or not. If it’s a solar eclipse, our careers — for better or worse–may come into the spotlight or achieve an outcome worthy of public recognition. Or they may come under attack, and we have to reconsider how we deal with authority figures and men. During a lunar eclipse, our relationship with women, including our female friends, mother, wife, grandmother, professional relationships, clients, and business associations, come into focus. We may make new friends and lose old connections; come into power struggles, or find ourselves assisting one. 

When we encounter problems, we might learn what brings us the greatest self-nurturance and learn to love ourselves more. Pain can be the breakthrough needed for us to drop unhealthful ways and finally become our True Self. We begin to apply a different level of awareness, unity and kindness to ourselves and others.


It is during these periods that it is a good time to reconnect with Mother Earth. We pick up from the astral plane so many vibrations that are not ours when the veils are thin. For the three to 48 hours that the eclipse is in effect, earthing is recommended to release the fear, anxiety and feelings of scarcity, that we might come in contact with when our insecurities, ignored old hurts and unresolved issues are commingled with the Collective, especially during the super emotionally spongey Pisces moon. 

It is not advisable to start or end projects during lunar or solar eclipses.  

Just as Mercury retrograde puts us in a review mode, eclipses make us defenseless against all the emotions around us and make us slow down to take in outer world feedback. It takes time to integrate the information for our inner process of healing. However, once it is felt on a soul level, we can start to slowly accept what is and act accordingly. 

By working with the cycles of Nature we can make eclipses work for us. Email us at enchantments.store@gmail.com for astrology readings. We can help identify underlying themes; unblock energies, interferences and energy imbalances as well as uncord stubborn, unhealthy attachments. 

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Your heart and my heart are old friends

This morning while working out, I was introduced to another woman, and she immediately declared, “I know you.” We racked brains together to figure out how but couldn’t come up with how. I laughed and thought, this is hilarious. It’s Valentine’s Day and it’s time to write about an age old favorite, the “old soul.”

How do you know a stranger when you never met them?

The soul is ageless. Unlike our physical body it transcends time. As we go from one incarnation to another, we fall asleep to our previous lifetimes and part of an Infinite Consciousness, and start over in a new body. 

Many of the new children (those born after 1970)—crystal, indigos, rainbow, etc. –remember who they once were, because we have made it acceptable to remember these lifetimes, and welcome these children as bearers of light to remind us; however, most of us who are older have been conditioned to suppress and deny these memories.

Recovering lost memories

One of the first things my teacher did with me when we started working together was: she made me recall my childhood memories. She rolled the film, as if she and I were passive observers watching a movie, and she bore witness to some of my deepest secrets and mystical moments. As if we were time travelers, we went back to a grove of trees when I was five years old in Longwood Gardens, Pa. A family friend was getting married, and I remember getting lost and feeling sad that day. Even though I was a little girl, I experienced her happy day with a flush of other memories from another experience that was so vivid, I felt so much older than my 5 year old body; and, true to date, these past life experiences have kept me from being married. 

Another time I remember daydreaming in my dad’s station wagon, and looking up into the clouds, I could interpret the formations, and downloaded memories so sophisticated, I felt like I knew my purpose and told myself that in this lifetime, it’d be better to be intelligent than beautiful. There was more information than that, but those moments faded as I didn’t know how to record them and when around adults that treat you like a child, you learn act in accordance to the societal role and the memories get pushed back and forgotten.

And that is why it’s so important to interact with others. Whatever your religious beliefs, we never stop running into people that remind us of who we are from some unknown connection that is unexplainable. Sort of like a déjà vu or parental figure or person from a recurring dream. If you believe that the soul migrates upon physical death, then the possibility of past lives makes a lot of sense; for there are moments of recognition that we can neither explain or logically understand with our human minds, but their interaction with us, help us recover lost pieces of our journey that we need to reclaim in order to become Whole. This relates to friends, teachers, coaches, strangers as well as lovers, and thus we can call any one a soul mate. 

How do we recognize our soul mates?

A soul mate is a person that shares a common bond with you for the purpose of growing. It could be sister, a friend, a pet or a lover. Usually the bond is instinctual. You might even experience greater harmony with those outside your ethnic and family group. Sometimes you feel drawn to different time periods and cultures for no reason. Sometimes there is so much commonality that there almost seems no need to talk or overly explain. They somehow know us, as if we are two peas in a pod. There is no explaining why you both are so close, but it appears that in spite of outward differences, there are many deep ways this person mirrors some of our best and worst traits. 

If you have been around for many lifetimes, you begin to see people and immediately place them into archetypes — whether it is a four or five element astrological system, an animal totem, a fairy or crystal or mineral. As Steven Bancarz explains in his The Mind Journal article entitled, “Five things only old souls can fully understand,” “this is because you have seen the archetype of that person before in a past life and are familiar with the general behavior and psychology of that archetype. You have interacted with thousands of people throughout the course of your soul’s history, so there is really no archetype you haven’t interacted with yet.” As we evolve, we simplify these traits to learn about others and the boundaries of our own selfhood with respect to them through exchanging, loving, and sharing hidden aspects of ourselves. 

Some soulmates stay for a long time and become companions; others come and go, leaving us with pain and disappointment but also a gift of deeper compassion, understanding and sensitivity. We learn deeper whom we are compatible with; and we learn that relationships have many purposes.

Not all soul mates exist to fulfill us romantically.

Some soul mates come to help a person manifest a personality trait, a piece of art or a movement. Examples of people that get together for more than a romantic purpose are many. Bo Derek and her husband John Derek’s coupling helped mold her into a sex symbol. Another example is the relationship between Georgia O’Keefe and Alfred Stieglitz, the latter of which provided the financial support and promotion for her to receive acclaim as an artist. Another example is the spiritual partnership between Martin Luther king and Coretta Scott King. They each fortified each other and Coretta finished his legacy.

Certain traits do incline individuals to get along with each other; for that reason, we read the horoscope and marvel at how accurately it explains the quirks about our partner. Other times, our partners behave completely out of sync with the archetype, depending on which side of good and evil, he or she chooses to express. That said, we may not always be able choose the best partners but we can surely educate ourselves in choosing the right people to be more around with. 

If you’re not with the One or lost someone, maybe you have to learn to be the ‘One’

All of us want our relationships to last an eternity; however, if our soul has signed up for great challenges and growth, it is possible that that destiny can only be fulfilled by phases (and different partners at each phase); periods of solitude; or even divorce, loss and betrayal.

When life becomes tough and you come in for a consultation and ask how could I have signed up for this? The only explanation is that your life story is meant to be a drama for others. Sometimes to fulfill the soul’s need for such an experience to grow, mature and heal some of its past life wounds, we go through wrenching events as well as positive ones. As Arnold Swartzenegger once said, when you ask for greatness, it “does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.” Thus life produces the experiences that shape us into the individuals we aspire to become, and it’s up to us whether we become a victim of those circumstances or we learn to rise above.

Other times: life is going to happen to us regardless of our conscious control. For that, we sometimes have to acquiesce to a Higher Power and trust that, in some way, it is for our highest good.

If you want to actively moderate some of life’s dramas that are within our control, knowing the karmic patterns, in which you engage with certain individuals, can give you some insight into what you are experiencing and, if it’s a lesson you want to get over with, you can start taking action to resolve it. We may not be able to avoid certain types of people, jobs, illnesses, events, accidents or burdens, but we have, through many spiritual and psychological tools, to address unexplained fears, phobias and esteem issues that plague us from unsettled patterns from the past.

Each relationship is like a refining process. Our character becomes better defined and more durable; as we learn what can destroy us and what brings us back to joy and happiness. The more we see our relationships as a means to develop self-love, the more we can let go and enjoy the sometimes roller coaster ride that our soul mates take us, while our destiny with them unfolds and fulfills its purpose.

Fear not that there won’t be anyone out there for you. 

Be it a new friend, a new lover or a new pet. Despite what Hollywood wants you believe, there is no One and Only soulmate; there are multiple soulmates in the journey of life. Maybe that might not give you comfort when you are in a dry spell or experiencing a long bout of loneliness; however, if your heart is open and you have done the work to address what might not gone right in the last relationship, you will find others. 

As you work on becoming the right person, i.e. your authentic self, and putting yourself out there, law of attraction has to deliver true love to you with someone who appreciates your unique characteristics.

Conclusion 

No matter how successful, painful or disappointing, soul mates come to remind us who we are and show us how to love ourselves. If we welcome the experience understanding the purpose together, soul mates can help us experience love without fear before we go back into the light we came from.

 

Why I do what I do


Why I created a store called Enchantments in Brooklyn and specialize in aura photographs.

It all began to click for me when I took an aura picture of myself in a metaphysical bookstore in Cambridge, Massachusetts when I was 18.

My aura, at the time, was white – and the description informed me that that’s the color of a spiritual teacher.

I didn’t believe it at the time.

I wanted to be something else; like maybe a writer, lawyer, or professor.

But in the back of my mind it made sense with who my grandmother was. [See bio]

My grandmother was ahead of her times.

My father’s side of the family was the poorest in their district in Taipei at time, and my grandmother supported 10 children, washing clothes for others. At 43 years old she left her family and abusive, alcoholic spouse to join a Buddhist monastery. 

She had to shave off her beautiful hair and don a robe that made her separate from society but equal to men at the time. That was the only way she could express what was inside her, which was a special spirit that projected more authority than was acceptable for women in Asian culture at the time.


She was illiterate because of the poverty in her surroundings but she was able to pick up Sanskrit more readily than traditional Chinese. I would say that both of us have the same reading level in Chinese. But her power with people came from a life of service. 

She was called often to bury the dead and to bless rice paddies and homes of unsettled spirits who died suddenly and violently during the White Revolution in Taiwan. These were the country’s top talent: the intelligencia– that were murdered in plain sight in front of their families to silence them, so they wouldn’t rise up in rebellion against a rogue government that fleed mainland China after the Communists took over. In her practice she led so many souls to the Other Side that more than a thousand people came to her funeral. The number of handkerchiefs from the funerals she administered was staggering: enough to fill a room.


During her life she had the ability to read people and know their fates. In addition to their traditional cannons, most monks and nuns are trained in esoteric knowledge to help heal and even release people of their karmic suffering. Through face reading, meditation and compassion – without asking for money in return; however, those who have the privilege of being in their company can feel the vibration of their life’s dedication and appreciate why they are centered in prayer in the world beyond this one.

My gift

As a child I always could sense things without knowing why. I sometimes could read people’s thoughts and have dreams about things. I knew exactly when I would get into a good high school, and I knew exactly that my best friend would only come in second place as a finalist in the Westinghouse. I practiced visualizing getting into Harvard from age 4, and I spent hours learning how to travel outside my body to places in my imagination when I was 11.

I never really thought much about it until I met my grandmother when I was 12. I saw her get up every morning at 5 a.m., practice yoga, read scriptures and walk around people in Chinatown, who would fall at their knees when she showed up and try to worship her.


I didn’t understand enough at the time but when I saw her again at 16, I knew that we were same; in so many ways.

I have had many more opportunities than she did in her lifetime but what she achieved with the little education she had is astounding. She reached the equivalent of a “cardinal” level in her religion. I don’t understand how she did it because she had no education. Service to others was her only calling card.

She has since passed for more than twenty years, but she is with me always. In my memory and in my practice.

I am Christian now but I have both Christianity and Buddhism in my upbringing. I can see how different each world is, just like I can see how the West is different from the East.

Many of you are that way, too, if you have bicultural families or have extended families. The world is increasingly more mixed, these days, and that’s a good thing for human evolution and the growth of Consciousness among all sentient beings.

Summary


In opening a metaphysical store, I wanted to create a unique space, where individuals could meet and delve into the Unknown in a comfortable setting. It was in that store in Cambridge, MA, that I found crystals, the books, the knowledge, the insights to begin my journey, and I wanted to give others that same opportunity to find themselves.

Knowing your purpose should not be blocked by religion or traditions that tell you to avoid hidden knowledge. We should all have access to teachers, resources and tools to find out about our purpose, so that we can get on with the business of fulfilling it.

From being sensitive to being successful

… this is a blog about my journey with being a sensitive in a 3D world and I invite you to share yours.


Where it all began for me

One crisp October night in 1987 I was called out to the luminous night sky. A freshman at Harvard College, I remember that strange night, where all of a sudden, I felt heaviness in my heart and my ears buzzed nonstop with worry and fear. My proctor came out to see if I was okay. I was not. But I was too stunned to cry; I don’t even remember what I said to him. I just felt overwhelmed by the pain of that moment, unable to escape the Din. A heavy cloud of misery that descended on me and stayed with me.

It was the next day that newspapers headlined the day to Black October, one of the worst times in economic history. There began my journey of being able to hear and feel the screams and struggles of others far away.

I couldn’t concentrate on any homework that season.

Even though my head was buried in the books and I was taking notes, my mind was with those people calling me.

That year I almost flunked out. My confidence plummeted, because I thought I was consciously working so hard but I spiritually had checked out.

Every time I took the Amtrak Metroliner (a train) from my home in New Jersey to start another season of school, I’d have to take a Valium. When I was in school I didn’t know what it was, or where it was coming from, but I could feel and hear people. In so many cases, it was more than I really wanted to know.

I was an archaeology major then and things only intensified when I visited ancient battlefields, cemeteries and other fated grounds. I began to study everything I could get my hands on to understand what I going through. I didn’t know but I dove into astrology, metaphysics, and early religions, anything I could get my hands on to understand what I was going through but not a lot of books existed at the time.


I was using chemical analysis on religious artefacts and reliquaries and spent 6 years in scientific laboratories, using mass spectrometers and other methods at the National Bureau of Standards (now called NIST), Smithsonian, and the Fogg Museum, trying to authenticate objects, meanwhile my hands and instincts were telling me another story. As I discovered, and as Arthur Koestler puts it, “Science allows us to glimpse [only] fragments of reality.”  No pun intended but there is always more than meets the eye. 

Fragments of reality: the physical realm is only one aspect

I never felt satisfied knowing that, as archaeologists, we can only sample 1% of the surviving remnants of a culture, and then proceed to write authoritative conclusions about an indigenous people.

During the two years I took off to take care of my family and travel, I saw that museums and universities only cared about publishing the scientific view (however limited and distorted), and their administrators only concerned themselves with charging admission.

Never the Truth. 

I was more impressed with the entrepreneurs, such as antique gallery owners or scientists and chemical engineers working Corning Glass and Dow Chemical, that I met along the way. 

Even books written by amateurs with a passion were so much better than academic press publications. They seemed more open-minded, were more willing to grant you permission to test their collections, and leaned more towards “making sense” out of data rather than complicating it.


From hearing your voices to finding you

Life didn’t improve from the time I graduated to my first job.

People didn’t understand me. I was so different from others. They ostracized me. 

No matter how hard I worked, someone found a way to keep me from a raise or stab me in the back. I could only respond with indifference and hide my pain. 

I didn’t know this at the time but my aura was so interweaved with others that my energy always confused people. 

 Since people tend to reject what they can’t understand or feel is different, I began to hide who I was, my education and all my accomplishments to blend in.

I watched with despair when other people with less substance got promoted.

Bad luck surrounded me.

Countless number of times, I’d be triggering all kinds of authorities, including Scotland Yard, the Egyptian police, and the CFA Institute, and getting in trouble for no reason, except being involved with troubled clients, wrong place/wrong timing, or a case of mistaken identity, respectively.

See bio (for part 2)

It was only until I was 26 that I met a teacher by accident through an interviewer, with whom I shared my gift of reading. It was this teacher that was able to take me under her wing and teach me how to use my gift. And it’s my goal here share with you some of those lessons, as well as ones I discovered on my own.

What’s the deal with the infamous suit?

I’m flying my “weird” flag loud and clear this weekend to avoid being recruited by one of the departments at work, who have made several overtures through coworkers.

The secret of the Wall Street suits 

Here is my history with Wall Street and why I don’t want to make the move.

I worked 20 years on both the corporate and consulting side as a marketer. Every opportunity to go to lunch or on a road trip, I would encounter the suits, professional men and women with considerable academic achievement like myself focused on a trajectory in the finance world. They all speak knowledgeably; most of them are pedigreed, either from a fine university, graduate program or internship. They speak in specialized language of their chosen fields and they invariably are mild mannered and at times have pursued very similar soul paths. 

I used to see these individuals, mostly analysts and portfolio managers, as proper, appropriate, powerful and in the right place. Until mid 2007, when I was trapped in a hotel with them. I remember while finishing a roadshow lunch and packing up the table, one passed by me without acknowledging me, and I thought I could never be one of them, even if I pursued the education. 

The only way I could explain this is: a person with a multicolored aura can never be a suit. 

It’s actually devolving. 

Suits act in ways that others demand them to be or acts a certain way to fit in and conform with what society accepts. They are fixated only on a material reality. Suits live the life that society had always told them to live. “Find a secure job, work hard,” they would say. “Get a solid job and work your way up the ladder.”

Suits are starting up the color chart a basic Earth tone (concerned only with survival), while I have been through so many incarnations, I’ve a hue from every lifetime that helps me see the variegated nature of seasons, people and life experiences. So while most people expect me to be motivated by money and fear, they find instead someone more concerned with creating characters, playing with other people’s palettes, exploring different dimensions, allowing for archetypes of other lifetimes to express themselves, and speaking with a wide array of people to feed my ability to have a spiritual communion with the Whole.

Every time I think back to that pivotal moment I remind myself what wearing the suit means. 

To me it wasn’t unlike academia. Suits are souls whose knowledge is a function of mechanical control. They are the willing pawns of this manufactured reality. Instead of having an optimistic disposition, they are valued for their grey assessments of the world and economy.  Numeric expressions make up their daily function. Instead of offering solutions, as their entrepreneurial counterparts are wont, they look for ways to crunch numbers that make the simple appear more sophisticated and impress rather than truly communicate. All this packaging is not unlike their exterior: predictable, monotone and financially secure. 

Suits can tell their status from other just by looking at the closeness of the individual threads and the fine tailoring. They compare themselves on the basis of their uniforms, for this is how others judge them. The wealthier the look, the assumption is: the more successful they have been and the better able to represent your interests. 

That all has changed since the financial crisis of 2008. You can argue otherwise but the secret is: the elites have been bailing out. It’s not a conspiracy theory; it’s an industry wide shake up that has gone on for eight years. As global consciousness has finally caught up with the game, the elite can no longer control or deceive as much as they did in the past. Subsequently, the job security is no longer a guarantee for suits as the control environment becomes increasingly fragmented.

Be true to yourself

Going back to my dilemma, I knew joining this department would be a step back into uncertain waters. As my coworkers kept nudging me, I admit I didn’t know how to respond. 

Like most people I faltered, and the experience made me realize no matter how strong my inner knowing, my first impulse was to react like a suit, i.e. obey, take the order and think later.

Why it happens?

Usually our intuition already has the answer, yet we have been programmed to trust only logic. We say to ourselves “it’s more money. That department has a prestigious function. It is a top line role; there is bound to be opportunities,” and we delude ourselves into doing the easy thing and follow like sheep to the slaughter. 

As Casey Neistat once noted, “It’s a really frightening position to be in, because you have this big fat check in front of you and oftentimes you can be asked to compromise your value or your integrity to pay the rent.”

It’s at times like this that I have to document what I did right to remember it the next time around. 

Firstly, I delved into my purpose and asked if the department was a fit more for my long range goals and proclivities rather than my bucket list. We have skills we have learned and we have stretch goals that take us deeper into our potential. Which was this? 

Secondly, I had to ask why is this so important that they are trying so hard to get rid of me. Had I pushed too hard against the grain? I didn’t think so. I worked hard, I didn’t gossip, I presented a professional front, I just didn’t find the suits welcoming, so I mirrored it — and maybe that was the energetic resistance they wanted to dispel. 

Thirdly, sometimes we need support from others that know us well to allow us to choose ourselves. So much of society wants us to fit their expectations that we invalidate ours. The truth is: only we know what makes our souls happy. We should take 100% responsibility for saying no to those who don’t have our best interests in mind. 

For those people that think they can change the tone and culture of the organization by moving you like a set of lawn furniture, they will have to live with your decision that your path is unclear to them. Because it is, they cannot obstruct or control you.


Finding myself on the spiral path 

There is a profound sense of joy and purpose when we have to lose ourself in something greater. Whether this something is art, a movement, a vision or a Higher Power, it’s to trust that if the destination is Unknown that could be the best thing for your Soul. 

In the past I had pursued my ambitions like a straight line. Each time when I got what I wanted (reached my destination), I was disappointed. If it was accolades, societal approval or money/status, the outcomes were depression and isolation. There was always something more that I was not; some reason that said never enough; or a certain loneliness that no amount of achievement could fill.

Even when the purpose was spiritual attainment, I didn’t find complete fulfillment in that, either. I thought it required full sacrifice, complete dedication, as lightworkers are called to do. But it only led to poverty that I did not enjoy (or recommend to anyone).

When controlling my destiny (trying too hard to walk a straight path) made me miserable in 2016, I surrendered to natural forces and a new dimension opened up. 

When one discovers and understands the doctrine of the two nature-orders, he stands at the doorstep of the Spiral Path. When one makes the voluntary decision to forsake the material world, choosing to be in the world but not of the world, one can begin to walk the Spiral Path, the Path of Liberation; the Path of Return.” — BrotherGee

You know you’re on the spiral path by your inability to define it to others. I thought I would be on the spiral path when I began my career as a psychic but I hadn’t fully surrendered control. To forsake the material world doesn’t mean let go of making a living. It actually means being in a state of indifference towards it as the primary determinant of your value.

Your life becomes like a spiral, because sometimes you have to start over. Or go back to a riddle that you still need to find the answer. And that answer will unlock the door to the next level. Each turn of the spiral brings us back around into life lessons that are now approached from a new level of understanding. 

Once you stop worrying about what others think, you begin to relax into your true self and do your life’s work. Your inner life takes over. Life becomes more enjoyable, because each time you heal, your soul learns lessons and your overall sense of mastery brings you inner fulfillment.

We were all created to return to our original state: communion with that Consciousness that breathes life into all living beings. Once we do we can’t feel lonely any more.

– We lose our obsession with correctness and begin to reacquaint ourselves with spontaneity.

– We open up to the receptivity of being in meditative, transcendent states, where our imagination, intuition, and inner life fully come alive. 

– Instead of traveling in a straight line, which isn’t really natural, we allow things to sink in and begin to understand the world around us in a deeper way.

– We embrace our imperfections and understand that everything is in perfect order, even if we cannot understand it.

Be proud of how you shine your Light

Being a multicolor aura personality we have diverse life experiences and struggles that gives us a different response to life.  Knowing that people are never black and white, neither good or bad, we are learning how to apply our compassion, greater awareness and understanding to how to channel, express and communicate with them. 

When we immerse ourselves wholeheartedly in the emotions of the collective and respond to it rather than shut it down, we open ourselves up to greater possibilities. We are able to be diplomats across all lines. As a result, our effectiveness goes up.

With our experience handling diverse challenges and failures over many lifetimes, We have earned my colored stripes. Knowing that we have survived the worst means we can offer positivity.  Leaders want people who can see the bright side of things. They know that doom and gloom doesn’t accomplish anything. While most suits struggle with the diminishing financial rewards, someone with our commitment is a joy to be around. That only increases our negotiating leverage.

In a storm, which reveals everyone’s mettle, that is what makes a colorful aura personality stand out. 

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How to get ahead despite your gift

Having a life that no one understands is a big challenge. 

Accept it

Even though you could have so much in common with others, such as the same background, neighborhood, schooling, desires, etc., but if you are one iota different than the norm, most people sometimes do not want to connect. They may be mystified by you but they still prefer their connections with those that are at the same level or lower.

No matter how you try, people tend to judge you within the first few minutes or interactions and set their future behavior with you by it. 

If you vibrate at a slightly high frequency than most, you will not fit in. It’s not you; it’s more the speed by which you take in the world; and if you are swifter at seeing through the hidden it sometimes makes people uncomfortable. 

No matter how hard you work or try, how the ‘in’ group pegs you remains a barrier until someone of high social value in the group points out that you are acceptable. 

Instead of moving forward, you are forever battling their perception of you, and as an empath it’s hard not to be able to miss that when you are in shared space but this is how you can stand up to it. 

Bolster yourself with wise words

I like to collect images or quotes that strengthen the inner self. Words have power. When we live by them, as JFK said, we can be indomitable. As our imaginations are more active than most, we don’t need something to be physically present to bring it into our present reality. Just as affirmations program the mind, we can use aphorisms to empower us throughout days when the popular mind is set against us.

Some people read the Bible. This is good, too; whatever brings you to a place of peace when the world is upside down.

Understand that you and others are mirrors for improvement

Usually it’s not about you; it’s about what you bring up for others. As empaths we have a natural ability to reflect the light of others. Upon occasion some people won’t like the self they see in your mirror.

Lately I have been experiencing a little conflict with my boss. Even though we get along well, he has been susceptible to believing the rumor mill’s ranking of me and less in the output that I produce. This leads to a devaluation process, which is disappointing. 

When I discussed an opportunity to move into another department with a coworker, a colleague gave me some perspective on my boss’s situation. Namely, that he had been passed over for a promotion last year by a peer; and, despite all the kudos, personal charm and outward recognition displayed towards him, even a popular guy like him has struggles. 

This made me realize that being accepted by your peers isn’t enough. Even the ones that are well-liked and perceived as ‘normal’ do not make it up the corporate ladder.

When you realize this you have to take a step back, forget your bruised ego and think deeper about the context. Is it the department? Are the opportunities for growth limited in your path? So much so that they cannot promote even if you keep putting in superior performance, year after year. Are you important to the top line? Are your efforts critical to the mission’s success? Those are the real questions you should ponder.

In such a case, he can only prepare you for the indifference of others. Instead of encouraging your enthusiasm, he is teaching you about adjusting your expectations so that you can limit the damage others can do to you. The unfair nature of life is dictated by limited resources and the sooner you know that, the better equipped you are to find ways through trial and error to demonstrate value outside those parameters.

Negative attention is still attention; shine on


For many years I hid my gift from people, because it always held me apart from people in a way that inspired more jealousy than admiration. When people feel inferior to you, they look for ways to knock you down in order to even out the pecking order, especially in a male dominated field such as banking. It’s very sensitive; if you do not pay homage to a person’s title or their perception of status over you in the company, they will find subtle ways to make you suffer. 

The people who get away with not inspiring the wrath of big egos are the small people — the disabled, crazy or lowest levels of the bunch. They have a right to exist because they do the grunt work no one wants to do. YOU, on the other hand, have to ingratiate yourself and present yourself with a servile attitude in their presence or be served with a warning or pink slip. In the name of people who don’t know their place. 

For empaths this means you are made to feel less. The mean girls — as in peers or subordinates, are there at the Christmas party, hating on you; and the superiors who take it upon themselves to feel slighted by your indifference make it a point to avoid eye contact, pretend to not hear you and not acknowledge you in public. 

When you buck the curve, the herd goes wild. Shine on, anyway. 

Why? Because so many others are cowering, afraid to express their ideas and themselves. When you take a step you let people feel the energetic difference of not having to put on self-imposed airs of too much seriousness. You can do your job and breathe. Do that, so others can see there is more than one way to be successful. They can look at their unique gifts then and not lower them in value. 

Additionally, you will gain the respect of superiors who want improvement and see the value of employees who take the initiative to seek different solutions without seeking the validation of others. 

Trust your gift even when it gets you in trouble and makes you stick out like a sore thumb. Even if it is unearthing different aspects of a problem, it is a blessing to correct things caused by human conditions, such as demeaning others or being out of sync with the natural proclivity of a cultural norm. Those are even more valuable insights because they lie unspoken, undetected and unaddressed by conventional management techniques. They are only understood when brought into the light for reflection.

Stay out of judgment; the best gift you can give others is space 

Consider how radio stations work. If you are with people who are in consonance with your frequency you find communion, a desire to celebrate and rejoice in each other’s presence. When you are with those that aren’t (and this particularly includes negative people), you will feel their repulsion. Like it or not, your gift will not only unearth these personal preferences; they will magnify the differences because you will feel immediately the temperament of the people in a hot/cold manner that is hard to miss. 

At times it has nothing to do with how well you work or co-exist. It usually has to do with values. When the differences widen, people disconnect. Or they feel they cannot grasp the abstraction and lose interest in trying to understand. They label you eccentric and move onto more comfortable interactions, ones that guarantee a sense of belonging and avoid pressuring their sensitivities. 

I felt that way today. There was a noticeable coldness in people’s behavior. A colleague whom I always look up to was unnaturally formal and standoffish. He met my helpfulness with rejection, which stung. When later I inquired with another coworker what was the cause of the mood, I was told that the raises were being decided. Unquestionably, many people resented the outcome. Because he was unable to express his anger and contempt directly, some of that mood spilled over to unsuspecting innocent bystanders. 

If I were my younger self I would absorb that negativity and manifest it. Having spent time working with a teacher and learning how to distance myself, I realize that you have to let time pass before passing judgment. We feel so many strange things that it takes time to investigate and sort out what is ours versus what is others’ feelings. Because you are yourself, you have opened the gates for others to be open with their emotions, too; don’t block or judge others when they have a less than a positive reaction. Sometimes it is for justice when people are indignant; other times it’s frustration that their level of effort is not met with their expectations. 

When I found out it had nothing to do with me, I could stop walking on egg shells and use my gift productively. Bringing back the memory of that moment, I jumped into his consciousness to be a third party witness to understand the situation and understand my role in its resolution.

Use your curiosity to close the gap and bring others closer

Yes, indeed, when I could step outside of myself I could see how bonuses made people who already work hard, work that much harder. In this post-elite world order, where imbalances in income are finally being addressed, the toll takes an impact on the highest echelon. The most important players–the new business leaders and those that are holding onto the business, are seeing their gains marginalized. All those extra costs in regulating and maintaining a fair, contemporary organization, hit the ones on the front lines the hardest: for some of them they don’t know if everything they worked their working lives for is worth it any longer. 

While the majority find solace in diminished returns by balancing work/life goals, those who are used to making large bonuses can remain frumpy over the changes in the reward system. Most of the population won’t understand it, but it’s like being an A+ student all year round among the A-list team and only getting the same percentage increase as the janitor, whom you perceive as not sacrificing as much to achieve the level of mastery that you have. Nothing drains morale than when leaders fail to acknowledge the efforts of the team.

From my perspective these are the people who are most in need of our gifts because they have been so trained to meet short-term expectations, they have forgotten how to take an eternal view. 

People who win all the time in life ironically suffer from a limited sense of appreciation. When material value is your primary means of self-identification, small declines can magnify deeper areas of dissatisfaction in your life. It’s sad but these people are more unfortunate than you in that their focus on material gain sometimes gets in the way of attaining the richer aspects of life that money can’t buy, such as a healthy relationship, a happy family, passion, time, respect, and inner peace. Time, in particular, is one that cannot be recovered. That is why so many executives at supposed high levels of the banking world talk about leaving and never going back. It’s soul-wrenching what they allow their companies to do to them: i.e. to allow the narrow pursuit of money limit their self-expression.

Those are all aspects that we, as empaths, can intuit and help guide when circumstances go awry. If we can do it before it becomes too late, we can improve the overall work atmosphere.

Why is this such a game changer that could help you get ahead? 

Why do we love Sir Richard Branson so much? Because in a dog-eat-dog world he is bucking the trend and saying, “be happy,” “enjoy your vacation,” “give more” and making others experience the difference in quality of life that creates. Fun becomes the reason you come to work, the rationale for paying more because you want to be served by happy people. The ‘energy’ of the moment becomes valuable. In a world focused only on results, it’s placing humans back in the driver seat of what’s truly important: the experience. 

When people at a lower vibration feel the benefit of our higher perspective, and most importantly feel understood, we create the bridge for them to recover. The journey we take into their inner world is the healing we bring to the table. On another level we converse with their Higher Self to connect the dots and bring that person back into the fold without feel shame or any other negative judgment they may be feeling towards themselves. 

If we are on a speaking level with them, we can convey the lesson. If we are not we still create a space for the soul to find the key in our auric field. So when the storm is over (and if they can let go of the negativity) they too can find the missing link and eventually re-find joy in working again. Perhaps that is being a team player in a way that no one can deny. It is a ‘felt’ difference that allows people to go through their feelings without feeling watched or pressured. 

People think that getting ahead is a battle of reason and logic when really it is, as I mentioned earlier, a case of values. Employers are human and make decisions based on what they personally value, which is emotion-driven. If you are lucky, the organization consciously designs its relationship with its employees, suppliers, clients and stakeholders, and will spell it out. Unfortunately, the majority operates on unwritten rules. 

That’s where our gift as empaths helps. Your knowledge of what the group or supervisor cares about puts you in the driver’s seat. Even the best management techniques won’t work unless you create a safe environment, built trust, and give people the space to reach their conclusions about you and your desires at their own pace. Perceptive executives can sense which individuals lift up the organization. If you can intuit how to lighten the psychic burdens of those around you, you won’t go unnoticed for that promotion.

Conclusion

As empaths we have more homework because we have our emotions AND that of others’ to contend with, but we have more conscious ability to shape the emotional tone of our environment. Because we know the regrets of the dying, we know what life is meant to be and have a responsibility to help those who are lost rediscover purpose and meaning. If we can show others that we can use our sensitivity in a caring manner without losing identity in the drama around us, many more would follow us. Together we all can find peace and be rewarded for it, too.

#telepathynation

About me

I was a Westinghouse (now Intel) finalist at 16 and Ford Foundation scholar and graduated with a summa cum laude thesis in college. I started out a scientist (an archaeologist) but 

ended up in Wall Street for 20 years. I’ve worked with university publishing houses, biotech and pharmaceutical companies, corporations both in-house and on the consulting side, represented one of the world’s largest advertising agency during one of the roughest, accounting moments in its history, and helped companies of all sizes tell their stories and find funding; I’ve worked in government trade bureaus, teaching, and 


even independent tv and film. Then for the past eight years I have worked as a consultant on my own as well as a full-time psychic.


My main avocation is endurance sports. I’ve won 1st place internationally in Dragon Boat racing, which is a synchronized rowing sport in Asia, and have helped coach teams to win against the most formidable opponents.


I have succeeded and failed in so many different disciplines, it’s impossible to put my expertise in just one category. But if there is any way I can put it plainly, I am spiritual person making a living in the business world. I can’t pretend to be otherwise. I can bridge both worlds, and I can heal in both worlds. That took 40 years of training that was secret and a very privileged but lonely road.

My ethnic background


I am 100% Hakka Chinese. There aren’t too many people in this world that are full blooded #Hakka any more.

We are known to be #frugal, #hardworking people that will probably eat about anything alive; we have a talent for #languages and a canny ability in #business and #trade.

Hakka means “guest peoples”

and we have been nomads in Asia, even though many of us draw our ancestry to Hakka-speaking provincial areas of Guangdong, Fujian, Jiangxi, Guangxi, Sichuan, Hunan, Zhejiang, Hainan and Guizhou (see map above).

We are the most diasporic group among ethnic Chinese and can be found in Taiwan, Suriname, India, Bangladesh, Malaysia, Singapore, Indonesia, Vietnam (known as Ngai people), Thailand, Timor-Leste and Burma. You can find Hakka people everywhere, including Australia, Brunei, Canada, the United States, and to many countries in Europe, South Africa and Mauritius, on the islands of the Caribbean (Jamaica and Trinidad and Tobago), and in Central and South America, particularly in Panama and Brazil.

Revolutionaries

We are known to be revolutionaries. Overseas Hakkas have figured prominently in the politics of the countries they dwell in, such as Sun Yat-sen, founding father of modern #China; many members of the Communist Party of Chian; former president of Taiwan, Lee Teng-Hui, who is known for bringing democracy to the Taiwanese people; Tsai Ing-wen, the current president of #Taiwan and first and only popularly elected female President in Chinese history; and Lee Kuan-Yew, founding father of modern Singapore and first Prime Minister; Lee Hsien Loong, current Prime Minister of #Singapore; and Martin Lee, the father of democracy of #Hong Kong, Yap Ah Loy, founder of modern Kuala Lumpur, capital of #Malaysia; Low Fang Pak, founder and president of Republic of Lanfang in West Kalimantan; Hasan Karman, the first Chinese Mayor of #Indonesia; Thaksin Shinawatra, only Prime Minster of #Thailand to be re-elected; Yingluck Shinawatra, first and only Prime Minister of Thailand; Sok An, Deputy Prime Minister, #Cambodia; Ne Win, paramount leader of Myanmar for three decades; San Yu and Khin Nyunt, prime minister of #Myanmar; Pedro Lay, first Chinese Cabinet Minister of #Timor-Leste; 

Outside Asia, Hakkas figure prominently

Penny Wong, first Chinese and first Asian Cabinet member in #Australia; Gaston Tong Sang, President, #French Polynesia; Nat Wei, Baron Wei, first #British born person of Chinese origin in the House of Lords, UK; Andre Thien Ah Koon, first and only Chinese elected to the #French National Assembly and the first Chinese elected to a parliament in Europe; Varina Tjon-A-Ten, first Chinese elected to the House of Representatives, #Netherlands; Arthur Church, first President, #Guyana; Solomon Hochoy, first Chinese head of state in a non-Asian country, #Trinidad and Tobago; Hendrick Chin A Sen, President and Prime Minister of #Suriname; Rose Leo, first Chinese and first female Cabinet Minister, #Jamaica; and William Boss Wu, first and only Chinese elected to the National Congress of #Brazil.


Molded out of years of living in the mountainous regions, many military writers have attested to the Hakka spirit. We are survivors; we have “a very high threshold for pain,” as Lee Kuan Yew, founding father of modern Singapore noted. As Thaksin Shinawatra, Prime Minister of Thailand wrote, “There is a piece of important experience not found in books, that is the Hakka people fine moral qualities in doing business based on integrity. This is the most precious legacy left behind by my Hakka forefathers.”


Hakka Women – grounded in labor

In Han society, Hakka women were always workers – never able to bind their feet as dictated by the fashion mores at the time. Instead, we were matriarchs – both competent in the field as well as keeping a tidy and organized home. Property passed through the women in our society; and subsequently, our traditions are old-fashioned, organic and self-reliant. The Han women in contrast had to be carried everywhere. 

Because the group was so migrant, the men left for world while leaving the women in charge of the community — something unheard of in Chinese society. In fact, the labour of Hakka women was so prominent that an ancestral worship was altered to include them as icons. They were known for “tilling the fields, collecting firewood, weaving cotton, making clothes, and taking care of the food supply,” according to historian Adria Chan-Wyles. Hakka women even participated as soldiers in the Communist revolution, as they were tough and selfless. 



Reaching up for humanity

My grandmother took it one step further. Becoming ascetic was the only way she could express what was inside her, which was a special spirit that projected more authority than was acceptable for women in Asian culture at the time.

In her practice she led so many souls to the Other Side. In addition to their traditional cannons, most monks and nuns are trained in esoteric knowledge to help heal and even release people of their karmic suffering. Without asking for money in return, she served thousands. Those who have the privilege of being in her company could feel the vibration of her dedication; for very few would sacrifice everything in order to stay centered in prayer for others and steadfastly focus on the world beyond this one.

Inheriting this heritage and its massive responsibility

I am not Buddhist but I have both Christianity and Buddhism in my upbringing. I can see how different each world is, just like I can see how the West is different from the East, and my life work has been to articulate that for others. 

Many of you are that way, too, if you have bicultural families or have extended families. The world is increasingly more mixed, these days, and that’s a good thing for human evolution and the growth of Consciousness among all sentient beings.

In addition to being Hakka Chinese, I am connected to Native American culture. Even though I have no relations whatsoever in this lifetime to these indigenous people, many of my values are consistent with this culture. In part it is the reliance on Nature, because of the scarcity of resources my people encountered. In part it also the persecution of our ways by a dominant group. 

Why I named this blog TelepathyNation 

In our pursuit of technology we have lost sight of our humanity. In particular, we have been anesthetized to pain, and our devices threaten to make sleeping zombies of all of us, as we mechanically go from one moment to the next.

Mindlessly. 

To the destruction of the Earth and its inhabitants and our souls.

A nation to the Native American may be comprised of many tribes, just as my ancestry is comprised of many ethnicities based on geography, but is unified by one common language. 

This language is universal when we access it in a state of unconditional love. It’s only been forgotten —  suppressed by society. 



Our purpose together

In this era, I believe our generation and the children to come are here to rediscover our gifts and re-trace our genealogy to its Divine origins. That is the purpose of awakening. When we re-discover it we know that there is no separation between us, as in the photo of the monks above. 

If we truly want to survive in this modern world we need to protect that which is the most sacred: our soul. We could be served productively by the lives of those who can straddle both worlds: 

  1. to incorporate the spiritual in our daily lives; 
  2. sharpen up to know which path to take; and 
  3. use that Knowledge to create the peace and harmony we crave. 

In accordance with my Hakka roots, I am here to preserve the best of my grandmother’s and other cultural traditions for future generations. 

#telepathynation